Once you learn to accept these harsh realities of life you will be stronger.
You thought life is going to be easy. Don't you? As a child, all you wanted to do was to grow up. Is this what you thought life wold be like.
Life is tough, but the thing is that it makes us tougher. We are given a set of problems to solve because the universe believes that we have the capacity to deal with them. Its is not like the universe doesn't care about you and that is why it is making your life tough or something.
Everyone's life is hard, so cross the Rubicon.
1• Fix Yourself
Life hurts, people hurt us. Circumstances hurt us. However, recognizing and embracing your mistakes instead of hiding them is what makes a person grow, thereby making them accommodating and attractive.
We lead a life where we are broken inside but we have to pretend to be all together on the outside.
The problem is that we keep waiting for someone to heal us. We keep thinking that someone will suddenly come in our lives and everything will be better and we will be healed. As much as this thought is comforting to think about,the reality is that this isn't true. You have to heal yourself. You have to pick yourself up when you fall. You are all you have. Have faith is yourself because when it is war time, you are alone.
2• Stop thinking about perfect
We all have a notion of our life and that notion always makes us feel that we should have everything perfect and we should be perfect at all time.
This is life, not a Hollywood movie everything has to look pretty and perfect. Life is not going to be perfect all the time.
So make peace with what you are and what you have.
Accept yourself and your surroundings and then aim for the perfect. Even if you don't get to the moon, honey, you will end up in the stars and stars are just as beautiful.
3• You will always fail
Not like we want to sound like naysayers, but the thing is that not all our endeavours are going to be a success all the time. There will surely be times when you will fail and your life will seem to fall apart and you will face problems that you didn't even know exist. But that's the beauty of life.
Failure is present because it is supposed to teach us and make us stronger. Failure is pertinent for success. So don't be afraid at all. Find and try to look at things in a positive way. Ultimately, you will succeed.
4•Don't think you can change the past
You don't have any control over the past. So don't let it have any control over you. The past is gone and you cannot change it no matter how much you think about it.
You may enjoy being victim sometimes but it is not going to help you. It is only going to make you weak and vulnerable.
To be stronger, you have to get over the past and not think of it all the time. Live in the present and live in the now while thinking about what you have to do in the future. The past is a lost territory.
5• There might be no tomorrow
Your parents must have surely said it to you at some time in your life. Sometimes and for some people, there might be no tomorrow.
So don't put off things you can do today for tomorrow.
Do the best you can do today.
6• Don't hide under the "I am Busy"
We miss opportunity to have fun because we are busy. But what if this is what we like to tell other people? What if we aren't actually busy and are just hiding under the garb of "being busy"?
Never be too busy to live your life. This life is all you have.
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