9 Time Wasters You Must Avoid To Be Successful

We all seem to be living an amazing life but the productivity of every individual may not be certain due to the activities they set to prioritize.
Distraction and time wasters are responsible for the stagnation and failure of many careers. Some of them are subtle that we don't notice that they can hinder the success we desire. Its important to know the ones that can plague us. 
Here are the most common time wasters:

1•  Waiting for inspiration

You are less likely to succeed if you figure things out and don't actually take a step. Dare yourself, move in the direction of your dreams, try something you've always been afraid of; start that business that does a service you've always wanted, you've got all it takes to make a big difference.

2•  Worrying about the opinion of other people

When you keep worrying about what other people think, you will be their prisoner. You are less likely to succeed if you figure things out and don't actually take a step. Dare yourself, move in the direction of your dreams, try something you've always been afraid of, start that business that does a service you've always wanted, you've got all it takes to make a big difference.

3•  Complaining about everything

Wasting time complaining about everything you can think of and not doing anything to improve your life is one of the major problems with majority of people who are stuck in a life of mediocrity. Complaining never makes anything better. If you don't like something change it, if you can't change it, change your attitude and don't complain.

4•  Trying to please everybody

We should understand that we cannot please everyone at the same time it's impossible. Let me shock you. Trying to please everyone leads to stress, mysery and frustration. Just do your best.

5• Comparing yourself to other people

Comparison is the thief of all joy. The only person you should try to be better than  is who you were yesterday. Be yourself, be unique, be memorable, be confident, be proud of yourself.

6•  Repeating the same mistake

Mistakes are a part of life. When we repeat the same mistakes, it means we learnt nothing from it. Wise men learn from mistakes.

7•  Trying to do everything perfectly

Accepting imperfection frees you up to feel comfortable withoutworrying so much about the little thing.

8•  The fear of failure

Failure is an essential part of living. Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly. The only thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve is the fear of failure.

9•  Not living your life

You need to realise that your life is a movie. You are the main character. You say your scripts and act your lines. What are you waiting for? Wake up and enjoy everything life brings. Remember, life is too short. Live in the present. 

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12 Laws That Affect The Way We Live Our Lives

Universal laws get to function whether we are aware of it or not. Its simply known as the Law of karma, which means actions. Every action you make in thought or words definitely come back to us. This is in accordance to Newton's Law of Motion, "For every action there is an equal but opposite reaction".

 Therefore, we get to reap the fruits of our thoughts and action.

1• THE LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT (The Great Law)

Every action taken is a seed, and you harvest it in due season.

Whosoever seeks love, happiness and peace should love, be happy and be peaceful.

By the Law of cause and effect, we attract to ourselves that which we send forth, and so come in contact with people similar to ourselves.

2•  THE LAW OF CREATION

Every occurrence in our lives requires our participation. Our world is a reflection of our mental state(inner state). So its your responsibility to create your life by thinking aright. For all that we are is a result of what we have thought.

3•  THE LAW OF HUMILITY

We are bound to make mistakes, therefore, accept your faults and mistakes, for this leads to a big change. 

4•  THE LAW OF GROWTH

Every happening in our lives is orchestrated for our growth. To grow in Spirit, we must change ourselves first and not the people or things around us. We only have control over our lives. When we can change or improve ourselves, then every other thing around us gets aligned and change too.

5•  THE LAW OF RESPONSIBILITY

I am my first problem. Whenever there is something wrong in my life, there is something wrong in me. Its like a mirror effect. We must take responsibility for what is in our lives.

6•  THE LAW OF CONNECTION

Every of our actions are connected. The Past, Present and Future.

Every step leads to the next step, and goes on.

And every step seem to be significant.

7•  THE LAW OF FOCUS

You can't think of two things at a time. You cannot focus on Self and Truth at the same time. While your are trying to develop spiritual values, things like anger and greed become meaningless.

8•  THE LAW OF GIVING AND HOSPITALITY

Sometime in your life, you will be called to demonstrate the particular truth you believe in. This is where we claim to put what we've learned to practice.

9•  THE LAW OF HERE AND NOW

Worrying about our past actions and future achievements prevents us from experiencing life "here and now". The best time to live your life is now.

Old thoughts, old behaviours, and old dreams prevents us from having new ones.

10•  THE LAW OF CHANGE

Change is a sign of growth. History repeats itself, until we learn the lesson that we need to change our path. 

11•  LAW OF PATIENCE AND REWARD

No pain, no gain. We toil for every reward, no matter what you do.

Reward of lasting value requires patient and persistent toil.

True joy comes when we do the right things and are rest assured there will be a reward.

12•  THE LAW OF SIGNIFICANCE AND INSPIRATION

If you expect the best of anything, you have to give in your best.

The true value of something is a direct result of the energy and intent that is put into it.

Every personal contribution is a contribution to the whole.

Every thought and action matters. We are the architects of our beautiful lives.

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5 THINGS YOUR WOMAN NEEDS BUT WON'T ASK.

Growing up to become a lady has always been my dream. I really needed to know what it felt like to be in a relationship. I've come to realise that having a good relationship begins with understanding, especially knowing the purpose of your actions.

Having been in a few relationships, I realized that I never communicated my feelings to my partner, I expected him to know a few things on his own. But good things take time to evolve.

Well...Most men need to understand their partner, even though its not that easy.

Every woman longs for a man who understands her. 

Relating with your woman in a relationship could be the simplest thing to do. You need to give her time, pay attention to what she says, lover her and sometimes, make compromise. It sounds simple. Howbeit, there are certain things that women want from their men but wouldn't directly ask for it.

These are the top 5 things she wants. The beauty of life is being loved by a woman. She can go any length.

1•  "I Love You"

     You have been in the relationship for sometime now, you both love each other, the world knows you are in love. But how many times do you profess these three words, "I Love You" to her. Reaffirming your love to her makes her love for you rekindled. 

Just imagine she is doing some work and you walk to her, kiss her forehead and tell her "I love you", you bet she'll have a beautiful smile on her face for the rest of the day.

2•   Treat Her Right

      Every woman wants to be treated with some love and respect. When a woman feels loved and respected, she reciprocates same. She wants you to treat her right in front of your family and friends. There are times when you could care less most times you are with your friends. She wants to be a part of your guy circle and wants to have a good time with you and your friends. 

3•   Express Your Feelings

      Your woman would be happy to hear how much she means to you. This attitude gives her an assurance that she's loved. Tell her how she makes you feel, about what she means to your life and how much things have changed ever since you met her. Put these words in writing(a song, a poem, a love letter). This makes her feel special.

4•  Touch Her

     Touching her doesn't have to be sexual or lead to sex. This can be as little as playing with her hair, holding hands while walking, playing with her fingers while talking. This gives her a feeling that you adore her body. 

5•  Surprise Her

     When surprising her, you don't have to go big. Surprising her on birthdays and anniversaries is a welcome idea by every woman. 

   You can do this by getting her a random gift, drop by her office for lunch, cooking her favourite dish, take her shopping or bringing her breakfast to bed as well.

    These are little intimate things your woman wants but wouldn't ask directly. Do these and watch how much more she falls in love with you.