One needs to be smart as a whip to impress her man. Men think differently than women. And what impresses us doesn't always impress them.
But that's what makes dynamic fun and keeps things interesting. So when it comes to learning how to attract men, it comes down to this.
Men, just like women care about their relationship. They try to find
ways to improve it.
But that doesn't mean they've catalogued all they want in a partner -- or figured out how to communicate their needs.
So here's how to attract him emotionally. He's all yours.
1• Have A Life Of Your Own
If you learn to live your life to the fullest when he's not there, you'll have more good stories to tell him when he's around. And if there's one thing I've learned about my relationship, it's that every man values a successful and independent woman.
Not only does it make you more attractive, but it takes the pressure off him. He wants you to live your life, have your own hobbies and group of friends you spend time with. Show him that you have your own things to do.
Men are part of your life but they don't have to be your entire life. Ask him to join you, but be okay on your own.
2• Give Him Man-Time
Giving your man his space and time is one thing that he longs for. Unfortunately, this is often overlooked.
He knows you are really into him, you want to spend as much time together.
Do you ever just want to spend time with your friends and family? Aren't there things you can only discuss with your sister and best friend?
He's the same way.
Encourage him to see his friends and even family. Because if you never give him time to do his own thing, it can come across as controlling and clingy -- even when you don't mean for it to.
So tell him to go have fun. Be sweet about it. He'll appreciate you for it.
Besides, it'll make him want to cut the night short to come back to you.
3• Be Good At Something
We get fascinated to see someone who is great at what they do. Man or woman -- its really attractive.
Whether its a work, sports or hobby -- having sth you are good at( or passionate about) makes you desirable.
He'll want to know more about it, and he'll show more interest in you because of it. Plus, it gives him something to brag on you about to his family and friends.
4• Take Your Affection Outside
Let him know that you notice him. He wants a woman who's confident enough to make a move. In a study, 96% of men say they want a woman to show affection towards them in public. It doesn't mean you have to be all over him at the restaurant, but don't shy away from being affectionate.
Kiss him, touch him, get close.
All men need a little encouragement. He wants to know you are impressed by him too.
5• Laugh At Yourself.
There's no harm showing your fun side. Some sense of humor serves as mental matchmaker between two people. It's an important aspect of intellectual compatibility.
You can make fun of yourself, tease him, maybe about something silly you've both done. Humor makes awkward situation less awkward, and it give both a common ground to connect on. So, laugh together.
6• Have Confidence And Self Worth
Your self worth is your inner valuation of yourself. It dictates how you treat yourself and how you respond to how others treat you. Confidence and self worth determines what you will and won't tolerate, the standards you set and how quickly you bounce back from setbacks.
Confidence and self worth takes time to build, but it is worth it to do so.
7• Show Your Best Side
If you want to impress him, then look good for yourself. If you've been in a relationship for awhile, then you should be comfortable around your man.
Keep your hygiene in check, spend some time on your hair, smell good and wear nice clothes. Taking good care of yourself should be as important to you as it is to him.
You'll not only look more attractive, but you'll boost your confidence. And most importantly, you'll be showing him the best version of yourself.
8• Be Flirtatious
You know that feeling you have when dating someone new -- when you are fun and flirtatious?
Bring that back.
Its fun, exciting and mysterious especially if you've been together for a long time.
Because even though you've been together for years, he still doesn't know what on your mind. This isn't just about learning how to attract the man, it's about keeping them.
Flirt to your advantage, be mysterious, initiate intimacy between two of you. It's the perfect way to show him you care.
9• Respect Yourself
Men want to commit to women they respect. And if you want a man (or anyone else) to respect you, -- it first starts with respecting yourself. A woman who respects herself expects it from others. She quietly removes those who aren't respectful of her from her life. Having standards that you enforce with your actions, -- like expecting him to commit, or making him put effort towards building a relationship with you -- are just a few to show that you respect yourself. These are just a few of them. With this, he would respect you and value what you share.
10• Show Interest In What He Likes
I can tell how many times I've had to watch football with my man, and sincerely, there are times I understand nothing about it. But I do anyway, because it let's him know that he's important to me. He knows that football is not really my thing, but he also knows that I don't mind doing what he loves.
He needs you to show some interest in what he love (but he may not say it outrightly). So whatever your man loves, sports, cars, movies etc, show some interest. It strengthens the bond between you two.
11• Be Spontaneous
Relationship requires work. And we get to learn this over time. Nobody want a boring or dull relationship. And that's actually the most common mistakes women make in the bedroom.
When a man sees your spontaneity, he associates you with excitement, rather than boredom. And whenever he thinks of you, he'll know you'll have a good time together. Why? Because you'll be embracing a variety of new things.
Spontaneity impresses men and shows them that you are someone they can spend the rest of their lives with.
12• Show Gratitude
"Thank You" is that magic word that takes the relationship a long way. A recent study shows that acknowledging little acts of generosity strengthens the bond between people we care about. Appreciate him when he's done something for you.
Words do mean something. And if you mean it, he'll feel it.
13• Take Care Of Your Health
Taking care of your health is a sign you value your life. Eat well, get enough sleep, excercise. All these are beneficial. Plus, it will keep him attracted to you.
People who exercise regularly report feeling confident, are more successful and have more sex with their partners. And you are more likely to eat healthy when you start to follow a fitness routine. See, it's a win-win.
Thanks for reading.
